One Month as a Family

Today is one month as a Family! I received Maggie on December 7, 2009. WOW what a difference a month makes. Let me try to describe what she was like one month ago today.

  • Maggie did not cry - she had the "orphanage stare" and really had no emotion what so ever
  • She could not grasp anything
  • She did not know how to play
  • She liked a bottle and scrambled eggs - does not like anything cold - no fruits
  • She was scared
  • She loved her squeaky shoes
  • She loves my iPhone because it plays 102 Kids Bible Songs - Gran and I are about over listening to these! LOL

One month later, I have a totally different little girl:

  • Maggie has a million faces - my favorite is when she crinkles up her nose
  • She knows who her momma is
  • She laughs out loud and thinks all things are funny
  • She is really happy and loves to play
  • She still loves her squeaky shoes - even more if that is possible
  • She can play with her toys and can play by herself when needed
  • She roams the house on her own but comes back to her momma just to make sure I am still here
  • She gives kisses freely to her momma
  • She will go to a friend or family member but usually comes right back to her momma
  • She loves to be flipped upside down or tossed up in the air
  • She is very flexible and will be our little gymnast
  • She loves music and tries to sing - still loves the Bible songs but now also likes classical
  • She can say Uh Oh and today she learned Thank You or some form of that! She really just mocks what I say
  • She still loves scrambled eggs but also eats macaroni and cheese, sweet potatoes, mashed potatoes, chicken and rice and broccoli and cheese soup
  • Still does not put anything in her mouth - no cheerios, goldfish, or anything cold
  • Is teething
  • Loves her bottles still
  • Likes to ride in her cozy coupe that my brother's family gave her for Christmas
  • Wears 12 month old clothes but the pants are WAY too big
  • Likes to torture our dog, Izzy

I could write a whole other list of how my life has changed. I could never have imagine how wonderful being a mother truly is. God gave me the PERFECT daughter. He knew what type of child I needed and matched us perfectly. I can truly say that I already love Maggie with all my heart. It is like she has always been a part of my life. Now don't get me wrong - that lack of sleep thing is for the birds. I need my sleep but this little one has only slept thru the night 3 nights since we have been home. But I can truly say that I would stay up all night every night if she needed me but someone might have to commit me if we do that! I hope we are now getting the sleep thing down.

I have been so blessed to have such wonderful family and friends that are so excited about Maggie being home as well. I took her to the office this week to meet everyone and it was such a special time. I left her for the first time too. I had my cousin keep her for a little while and I ran some errands. Maggie was wonderful and had a great time with her CuzAunt Leigh. By the way, the pictures below are from their play date! LOL

Maggie, I love you and am so excited that we are a family. You have made my life special and I look forward to many more family anniversaries to come.

 

  Maggie's Fishy Face



  Laughing "AT" mommy

  Smiling at CuzAunt Leigh



  Playing with her phone my co-worker Sheryl gave her 

 

 

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  • 1/8/2010 Melanie wrote:
    Oh, I love fishy face! That's a good pucker for some sugar too. Isn't it funny with all the words in the English language, you still can't adequately describe what it feels like to be a mom. There just aren't enough words. I can remember my first birthday after Macy was born, my mom gave me a card that said "Now you finally know how much I love you." It was right, you just don't understand it until you feel it. Its hard to imagine how much you can love a little person that you've just met. Its such a blessing from God - a mother's love. Its amazing to me (and my friends who have adopted children) how quickly Maggie has adjusted and come out of her shell. In a short month, she is a completely different child. You can already see that she has a sweet, sweet heart (just like her momma). I can't wait to hear about all the new and wonderful things she discovers over the coming months. Plus, she'll soon get to see what its like to have a birthday party! Fun memories are waiting!
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  • 1/8/2010 Carol wrote:
    Tricia,
    Your words describing your first month with Maggie are beautiful. It is so thrilling to read about her and to see her precious pictures.
    Maggie is oh so adorable. I can only imagine what you now feel in your heart. Truly, this is part of God's plan for you. I regret that Maggie will never know her Big Daddy as he would have adored her!
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